In 1981, just before I turned 12, my family packed our belongings and emigrated my then 15 year old brother and I from the small island of Taiwan. I had understood that I was going to learn English and live in a place very different than Taiwan, but I would not fully grasp the different trajectory my life was about to take.
Erika and I found out in utero that our daughter Amara had an extra chromosome. The doctor told us that she would have a myriad of health problems and would be a burden to us as her caretakers. As we soon discovered, the bleak picture this doctor painted of Amara’s life turned out to be a complete fallacy.
She read my mind. Again. She is smart in a way that no one can test. But more importantly she is funny, determined, and passionate. And she has the uncanny ability of being able to read my mind. She pays attention to my face more than anyone I know.
Our names are Rich and Dani Gardner. We adopted our daughter Sarah when she was two weeks old. Sarah has Down syndrome. When we made the decision to adopt, we didn’t set out to adopt a child with special needs. We had been trying to have a child for many years, and suffered several miscarriages and failed IVF procedures. It was a very hard time.
This fall, Lily walked into school, on her first day of kindergarten, next to her two brothers, and all of the other children. She said good-bye to me, and off she went with her giant backpack on her back, chatting with her twin brother, not even looking back. Come on, moms need hugs, blown kisses, and SO many pictures, on their kids’ first day of school.
step up for down syndrome baltimore walk Sponsors
(formerly the baltmore buddy walk, tm)
Mailing Address
Chesapeake Down Syndrome Parent Group, Inc.
P.O. Box 20127 | Baltimore, MD 21286-0127
CDSPG, Inc., is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization. EIN: 52-1753132
